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Claraviolet

Claraviolet

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Right now, I am stuck in a situation that I wouldn't want to endure like ever. It's like living a lie and I am sick of it. I have tried talking about it with my parents but they believe that, I am too blind to see how fortunate I am. Sometimes, I find myself thinking of some really dangerous stuff....it's just hard. I didn't know that it would be this hard. Anyone here knows how to endure something that you don' like? Be it school or college situation or some family situations...anyone?
 
hehahahhaa, dude I want to kill myself so much right now its not even funny (due to college and other life things).

All I can say is, focus on your future, got something to look forward to? Make it your one and only goal, use anything that gives you joy to keep you afloat and endure. It's all we can really do.
 
I usually go online to watch self-improvement videos, read self-improvement posts on Reddit, and try to figure out ways to improve myself or eventually solve a problem I am having. There is a chance that a life problem will never get solve, but it is better than not trying to solve my problem.

You can try to improve your own life by doing new tasks like trying new hobbies, reading more books on things you like, learning new tasks, and being more positive, and hope things become better. There is a chance that life gets better like meeting new friends who respect you, finding a good person to be a romantic partner with, finding new hobbies which make you happy, more people notice what you like to do and encourage you to work harder, and customers support you by buying your stuff at your store, and watching your online videos if you upload videos to a website like YouTube.
 
Demon_Skeith said:
hehahahhaa, dude I want to kill myself so much right now its not even funny (due to college and other life things).

All I can say is, focus on your future, got something to look forward to? Make it your one and only goal, use anything that gives you joy to keep you afloat and endure. It's all we can really do.
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froggyboy604 said:
I usually go online to watch self-improvement videos, read self-improvement posts on Reddit, and try to figure out ways to improve myself or eventually solve a problem I am having. There is a chance that a life problem will never get solve, but it is better than not trying to solve my problem.

You can try to improve your own life by doing new tasks like trying new hobbies, reading more books on things you like, learning new tasks, and being more positive, and hope things become better. There is a chance that life gets better like meeting new friends who respect you, finding a good person to be a romantic partner with, finding new hobbies which make you happy, more people notice what you like to do and encourage you to work harder, and customers support you by buying your stuff at your store, and watching your online videos if you upload videos to a website like YouTube.
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Uh....I hate each and every moment...and my family just believes that I don't know what true life is.
It's just too complicated to explain but I just don't see a way out :(
 
Claraviolet said:
Uh....I hate each and every moment...and my family just believes that I don't know what true life is.
It's just too complicated to explain but I just don't see a way out :(
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none of us knows what true life is. My life is not the same as my parents or as my brothers. Not to sound like a anime person, but true life is the one that you live.
 
Claraviolet said:
Uh....I hate each and every moment...and my family just believes that I don't know what true life is.
It's just too complicated to explain but I just don't see a way out :(
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Maybe starting a small business or working at a part time job doing tasks like gardening, farming, and selling artwork which you like to do can make your life better. There is a chance you won't make much money, but you learn useful skills which can improve your life by having more skills.

If you don't need or care about earning money, volunteering at an animal shelter, food bank, hospital, or senior care home can be a rewarding way to spend your time by helping others. You won't earn any money, but you will learn useful skills, and can meet nice people.
 
Demon_Skeith said:
none of us knows what true life is. My life is not the same as my parents or as my brothers. Not to sound like a anime person, but true life is the one that you live.
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froggyboy604 said:
Maybe starting a small business or working at a part time job doing tasks like gardening, farming, and selling artwork which you like to do can make your life better. There is a chance you won't make much money, but you learn useful skills which can improve your life by having more skills.

If you don't need or care about earning money, volunteering at an animal shelter, food bank, hospital, or senior care home can be a rewarding way to spend your time by helping others. You won't earn any money, but you will learn useful skills, and can meet nice people.
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Thank you so much for your advice guys but I don't want to switch my job as I love programming and...I can't escape my current situation. Anyway thank you for encouraging me
 
Claraviolet said:
Thank you so much for your advice guys but I don't want to switch my job as I love programming and...I can't escape my current situation. Anyway thank you for encouraging me
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Spending 30 minutes to an hour or more on a task like writing eBooks, recording instructional video, and taking photos to keep for yourself, sell or give away for free on the internet can be a good way to relax, and get valuable feedback on how to improve your eBooks, videos, and software.

There are many task which don't use up a lot of time, and require almost no money to get started, so switching your job is not necessary.
 
froggyboy604 said:
Spending 30 minutes to an hour or more on a task like writing eBooks, recording instructional video, and taking photos to keep for yourself, sell or give away for free on the internet can be a good way to relax, and get valuable feedback on how to improve your eBooks, videos, and software.

There are many task which don't use up a lot of time, and require almost no money to get started, so switching your job is not necessary.
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Well..I work in a it company so I highly doubt I could get that sort of pay by doing other stuff that you have been in your post.
 
Claraviolet said:
Well..I work in a it company so I highly doubt I could get that sort of pay by doing other stuff that you have been in your post.
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There is a chance you can earn more money as more people are interested in your products and services. There are some people who earn enough money where they earn more on their own rather than working for a company.

Earning extra money doing tasks for a few hours or less after work can be a fun hobby, and the extra money can come in handy if you randomly need a few hundred to thousands of dollars to pay for unexpected expenses like car repairs, or pay off debt from a bank loan.

Many employed workers like teachers in America, Canada, and other countries make extra money after work tasks like tutoring, acting, comedy, baby sitting, or playing musical instruments to earn money for hobbies like travelling, buying video games and help pay for unexpected expenses like car repairs in the future.
 
froggyboy604 said:
There is a chance you can earn more money as more people are interested in your products and services. There are some people who earn enough money where they earn more on their own rather than working for a company.

Earning extra money doing tasks for a few hours or less after work can be a fun hobby, and the extra money can come in handy if you randomly need a few hundred to thousands of dollars to pay for unexpected expenses like car repairs, or pay off debt from a bank loan.

Many employed workers like teachers in America, Canada, and other countries make extra money after work tasks like tutoring, acting, comedy, baby sitting, or playing musical instruments to earn money for hobbies like travelling, buying video games and help pay for unexpected expenses like car repairs in the future.
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I don't have enough confidence to start my own business and highly doubt I can offer anything unique. One should be creative in this day and age to start a business and get some profits from it.
As for me, I don't think I am creative enough.

Demon_Skeith said:
Not sure of your pay wage, but programmers are needed her in the states and they pay very well.
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Well, I would like to stay in my own company and work. I know that by moving to some other country, other than India, I could earn more...but I want my country to be a developed country rather than a developing one.
There are so many people in other nations, who hold respectable positions in other countries...but they are not contributing much to India...I just don't want to be one of them.
My pay is good enough and my hike is great too. So, I would rather work in my native country.
 
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