That was written during the old testament from God. In that time women took pride in being submissive. they were agreeable and supporting and if astray of their personality they were commonly given punishment like spankings and what not. They had their role and guys had their role. It was not always better but more commonly was good as opposed to now. Even only 100 years ago women would divorce on a last resort. Sometimes enduring horrible treatment for years. Nowadays women initiate divorce at the rate of 79%. Over 90% in ages of 18 - 25. I know of women who divorced because they got cancer. All kinds of horror stories like that are too common now.
It's too risky to find a good wife. ALSO, having a great girlfriend doesn't mean she will be a good wife. Just like the joke goes, if you want sex to stop then marry her. It seems that everywhere I go women down talk their husbands. all day long.
I'm at the age where I've watched all my friends get married and their personality have disappeared into the nothingness of re-runs of caillou. They ALL are gone. Not even a light in their mind of their own individuality.
For myself, I had a brutal experience. I had the BEST girlfriend for like 7 years and reluctantly married because I didn't want things to change. After all of those comedies of women turning rotten, all of the wives I seen in my life and their lack of respect for their husbands I didn't want issues.
And about 3 months after I would describe her as selfish, shallow, self centered, cold, self absorbed, uncompromising, impossible to please, unsympathetic, inability to be interested to companionship, self serving, closed minded, humorless, unaffectionate and refusing to accept affection, prude, sexual drive of a garden gnome, judgmental, unforgiving, emotionally secretive. The women hated everything I liked deliberately. She went out of her way to appear and act unappealing. I spend like 7 years trying to find out what the hell she hated about me. I did so much but nothing mattered. Even SHE didn't know why she went "the feeling is gone everywhere". Man did I do a lot in that relationship.
And all of her 5 friends got married at the same time as us. They were so cool too and I listened to them after marriage constantly talk about how stupid their husbands are and I watched their guys build garages and work and cook and constantly run around trying to keep them happy but they still think they are dogpoop. And my mother has absolutely no respect for my dad but she has not worked since the 90s because he built up 10 apartment buildings and is loaded. The fridge has been filled and there was always a car with climate control paid for but she still thinks he's an idiot.
Then my friends... I had one friend where he liked to see his girl in dresses and liked long hair and she would spend every waking hour jabbering with other women bad mouthing him and saying she will never wear a dress ever again. Then she cut her hair like Ellen for like 5 years straight. Buddy treated her GOOD all day and night long.
Actually just today I been texting back and fourth with an old friend. We were childhood friends and then I moved back in town 8 yrs ago and we hanged out every two months or so but then he was to be married and I told him don't. It will change. he laughed at my stories and didn't listen. So he got married then when he would hang suddenly she would text within 5 minutes then call then pester him. then after a few times of hanging out she started giving him a bunch of errands to do when he would hang.... then she would get mad because he didn't answer texts. It got to a point where I have not actually seen him in 2 years now. She's mega controlling.
BUDDY IS NOT ALLOWED OUTSIDE and he's not allowed to have friends anymore.
I have not seen him in two years but he's texting back and fourth. sometimes there is a delay of about a day between messages......
JUST SAY NO>>> Every wife I've met does nothing but talk down about their guys. And every girlfriend I meet is ALL into their guy.