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My girlfriend Christina (pictured above) is moving in July.
She will be gone for 2 years because her mom won't let her go on her own till she is 18.
She is moving to Virgina cause her step-dad is in the military, and she doesn't want to go.

I love her with all of my heart and soul, and I never want to loose her. I know she feels the exact same way but her parents still insists that she goes with them.
So we are going to try a long distance relationship...
I strongly want this to work out cause I want to be with this girl for the rest of my life till the day I take my final breath.

The question is....Could YOU be able to be away from a loved one for 2 years and still maintain the love you have for each other now? (You are allowed to talk over the phone, text, talk on instant messengers, view each other over webcam, write letters, etc.) [The only thing you can not do is physically be with her]
 
QUOTE (dynastygal @ May 09, 2009 08:22 am) Unless I saw said significant other in little trips, I don't know...it takes a strong kinda love to go through that.
I honestly have that kind of love for her.
 
I'm happy that you got a gf again uber but....

QUOTE I strongly want this to work out cause I want to be with this girl for the rest of my life till the day I take my final breath.

how long have you know and been with her to be able to say this?
 
QUOTE (Demon_Skeith @ May 09, 2009 09:53 pm) how long have you know and been with her to be able to say this?
We have dated before but she messed it up...the longer she was away the more the feelings grew.

And she has told me the same thing about her feelings.
 
My opinion (though I do not have a girlfriend, but there is this girl I like so much, though I do not know if she feels the same...) is that I could not handle it. I'd go insane and could not handle it (even if I'm not going out with her...
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I probably shouldn't have said all that...
 
Okay, I see your issue here, and I've thought long and hard about it.

To sum up my response in one honest strong word: no.
It wont work, long distance relationships work about 5% of the time (and involve a lot of communication at that), and (although I'm not saying she will) the chance and opportunity for cheating.

None of my friends have ever pulled it off, and my only one failed spectacularly in about a week.

Sorry dude, but this seems like something that would only work in a Nicholas Sparks novel.
 
I'm long and hard about this issue as well.
In all seriousness, depends on the kind of love. If it's family, sure. I don't know otherwise.
 
QUOTE (Hachi @ June 23, 2009 12:02 pm) Okay, I see your issue here, and I've thought long and hard about it.

To sum up my response in one honest strong word: no.
It wont work, long distance relationships work about 5% of the time (and involve a lot of communication at that), and (although I'm not saying she will) the chance and opportunity for cheating.

None of my friends have ever pulled it off, and my only one failed spectacularly in about a week.

Sorry dude, but this seems like something that would only work in a Nicholas Sparks novel.
I understand your point of view of the situation and I respect your thought about it.

I have come to fully understand the factors of failure in the long distance and all I can say is "It doesn't hurt to try".

We both truly want this and we want to be together forever (forever meaning the average life span of a human).

Her flight is at 7:10AM CST, July 4th

We are going to miss each other a lot and hope to make it through this.
 
QUOTE (ubertrance @ June 25, 2009 06:36 pm) QUOTE (Hachi @ June 23, 2009 12:02 pm) Okay, I see your issue here, and I've thought long and hard about it.

To sum up my response in one honest strong word: no.
It wont work, long distance relationships work about 5% of the time (and involve a lot of communication at that), and (although I'm not saying she will) the chance and opportunity for cheating.

None of my friends have ever pulled it off, and my only one failed spectacularly in about a week.

Sorry dude, but this seems like something that would only work in a Nicholas Sparks novel.
I understand your point of view of the situation and I respect your thought about it.

I have come to fully understand the factors of failure in the long distance and all I can say is "It doesn't hurt to try".

We both truly want this and we want to be together forever (forever meaning the average life span of a human).

Her flight is at 7:10AM CST, July 4th

We are going to miss each other a lot and hope to make it through this.
the only X factor that will not make this work is if she or you happens to start liking someone else. as long as that don't happen I would say this works out. but I assume you will be able to say in contact?
 
QUOTE (Demon_Skeith @ June 25, 2009 06:48 pm) QUOTE (ubertrance @ June 25, 2009 06:36 pm) QUOTE (Hachi @ June 23, 2009 12:02 pm) Okay, I see your issue here, and I've thought long and hard about it.

To sum up my response in one honest strong word: no.
It wont work, long distance relationships work about 5% of the time (and involve a lot of communication at that), and (although I'm not saying she will) the chance and opportunity for cheating.

None of my friends have ever pulled it off, and my only one failed spectacularly in about a week.

Sorry dude, but this seems like something that would only work in a Nicholas Sparks novel.
I understand your point of view of the situation and I respect your thought about it.

I have come to fully understand the factors of failure in the long distance and all I can say is "It doesn't hurt to try".

We both truly want this and we want to be together forever (forever meaning the average life span of a human).

Her flight is at 7:10AM CST, July 4th

We are going to miss each other a lot and hope to make it through this.
the only X factor that will not make this work is if she or you happens to start liking someone else. as long as that don't happen I would say this works out. but I assume you will be able to say in contact?
I really doubt she will start liking someone else.

We will be able to stay in contact through: Texting, Phone calls, Myspace, Instant Messengers, Webcams, Writing to each other
 
QUOTE (ubertrance @ June 25, 2009 06:51 pm) QUOTE (Demon_Skeith @ June 25, 2009 06:48 pm) QUOTE (ubertrance @ June 25, 2009 06:36 pm) QUOTE (Hachi @ June 23, 2009 12:02 pm) Okay, I see your issue here, and I've thought long and hard about it.

To sum up my response in one honest strong word: no.
It wont work, long distance relationships work about 5% of the time (and involve a lot of communication at that), and (although I'm not saying she will) the chance and opportunity for cheating.

None of my friends have ever pulled it off, and my only one failed spectacularly in about a week.

Sorry dude, but this seems like something that would only work in a Nicholas Sparks novel.
I understand your point of view of the situation and I respect your thought about it.

I have come to fully understand the factors of failure in the long distance and all I can say is "It doesn't hurt to try".

We both truly want this and we want to be together forever (forever meaning the average life span of a human).

Her flight is at 7:10AM CST, July 4th

We are going to miss each other a lot and hope to make it through this.
the only X factor that will not make this work is if she or you happens to start liking someone else. as long as that don't happen I would say this works out. but I assume you will be able to say in contact?
I really doubt she will start liking someone else.

We will be able to stay in contact through: Texting, Phone calls, Myspace, Instant Messengers, Webcams, Writing to each other
then I think you got nothing to worry about.
 
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