Like the title says l have a huge girl troubles! Okay , l think it's best to start at the beginning.
About 19 months ago this Saturday, l started dating a girl that l thought was perfect, smart , funny, and not too bad on the eyes either. She was fairly nice to me, at first, then l found something l regret cut / hesitation marks on her arms and wrists. i already knew that she carried a pocket knife with her wherever she went, what l didn't know was that she was suicidal and threatens death with every chance l've tried to end the relationship.
Now, l wanna break up because she just scares me now, knowing that she's a time bomb with the fuse lit, ready to blow. l mean l've had to practically suicide-proof my house, putting a lock on the sliding door to the balcony (l live on the 3rd floor), removing all glass and switching to either a): Safety glass or B ): plastic, and hiding all non-essential sharp objects!
so you want to break up with a girl that is a cutter and she is currently living with you or she comes over a lot and if you break up with her she might kill her self and you might blame your self for her death. right?
QUOTE (ubertrance @ August 13, 2008 12:46 pm) i used to be this way honestly.....but i realized that i WAY over reacted and i just eventually got back up to my feet
she is wanting attention....how close is she with her parents?....friends?..
No, they hate both of us!
QUOTE (Deviant Shadow @ August 13, 2008 01:50 pm) QUOTE (ubertrance @ August 13, 2008 12:46 pm) i used to be this way honestly.....but i realized that i WAY over reacted and i just eventually got back up to my feet
she is wanting attention....how close is she with her parents?....friends?..
No, they hate both of us!
well I say your best options are to dump her or have her committed to asylum for suicidal people.
QUOTE (ubertrance @ August 13, 2008 01:54 pm) she is doing this because she wants attention....she wants it all
she needs to realize that life is not all about who has the most attention...
i recommend that you SHOULD break up with her BUT still be a great friend to her so she knows that she still has someone in life that cares about her
I want to know how crazy of a girl are talking about? if you hint about a break up does she go into I will cut my self, or I will kill my self kind of way?
QUOTE (Demon_Skeith @ August 13, 2008 12:57 pm) QUOTE (ubertrance @ August 13, 2008 01:54 pm) she is doing this because she wants attention....she wants it all
she needs to realize that life is not all about who has the most attention...
i recommend that you SHOULD break up with her BUT still be a great friend to her so she knows that she still has someone in life that cares about her
I want to know how crazy of a girl are talking about? if you hint about a break up does she go into I will cut my self, or I will kill my self kind of way?
The "I will kill myself" kinda way.
yeah..... have her committed, dump her, but yet visit her often to let her know she has friends. when she gets out maybe you can have a normal relationship.
QUOTE (Demon_Skeith @ August 13, 2008 01:25 pm) QUOTE (Deviant Shadow @ August 13, 2008 02:24 pm) Good idæ
that's my opinion and be careful when doing it.
Porque?
She needs help. If you only want to break up with her because of the cutting, then I would say that you should suggest she goes to counseling (possibly together). If you want to break up with her for other reasons as well, break up with her and when she threatens to kill herself, call 911. That way she'll be monitored closely and they can help her get help.
