How do you keep yourself positive?
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Just looking forward to what makes me happy.
It pays off to be optimistic. It will always keep your spirits high up.
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I always take my mind off from these challenges. It doesn't even make sense to me that I will have to focus on doing things that won't end up helping me fight those challenges.
A challenge that's pressing your neck will be very difficult for you to take your mind off it.
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Knowing I have so much keeping me from failure.
specifically at work, I would take insults/jokes personal... but then I have learned to just filter them out. Because I have that mindset of 'just do work, and then go home, focus more on stuff outside of work'. Also, I don't really feed into that negative energy. I have some coworkers that just hate the world, and think its centered around them... however, I just think of my family, and my dog, to keep me positive each day. Feeling negative all the time feels like life is draining out of you.
This is why I hardly make close friends at. I would just hold my own, do my job and go home. I have always known that no one is truly your friend at work.
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Uhhm, so I should keep thinking while making my health to be messed up?
yes, exactly. I see it as "you're an acquaintance, nothing else." Too many two-faced people at work, its' not right. I just keep to myself & do my job, go home.
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There's such a thing as pondering for a solution when it really bothers you.
Seriously!! Two faced people indeed. A lot of them will be looking for the slightest opportunities to take your position.
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That's a point. I am asking what to do when a solution is not forthcoming?
There's a saying that goes like this - ask and it shall be given onto you.
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Oh! I should ask in prayers or just ask? I have never seen anyone being given just because they simply asked.
No, not really in praying. Probably generally in anything you're doing. Seek assistance when you need help.
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From people? Those that will tell you a mountain of stories?
There are still some people who would be willing to help you out.
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That is after you've shared your issues with a lot of people?
Yes of course. They won't know if you don't make them aware of it.