i did NOT see that coming (girl problems)

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story: i went out with this girl names Christina....we had went out for 2 months (my longest relationship)....i went on my first date with her...i thought i was in love with her....but then on the 2 month anniversary she ended it saying "you worry WAY too much and that my feelings has changed for you"...well it so happens that she got a new boyfriend the next day....so yea i was heart broken...when she was going out with James (the other guy) she blocked me out of friendship and she was mocking me cause i was down alot.....

BUT...there is another girl...Brittany....we had a thing for each other for a while now but never went out due to bad timing...i feel like ive fallen in love with her and i know she has feeling for me....GREAT feelings (myspace stuff as proof)....the only reason im glad school is coming is so that i can see Brittany...

NEW PROBLEM....today Christina tells me that she still loves me (HERE IS THE YAHOO CONVERSATION) WARNING....SHE HAS CRAPPY TYPING SKILLS

--Christina Stofferahn: but um who were u talkin bout in ur status msg on myspace if u dont mind me askin

-Josh Smith: not saying

--Christina Stofferahn: if ur talkin bout me yes i feel the same way bout u i still love u

-Josh Smith: you do?

--Christina Stofferahn: yes i do

-Josh Smith: why

--Christina Stofferahn: cuz i do is there a crime in that i really still do love u

-Josh Smith: then why did u end it with me

--Christina Stofferahn: idk i guess i jus didnt no how i relly felt then but i really do no how i feel now i love u

-Josh Smith: you said that (from i remember) that i worry too much and your feelings had changed

--Christina Stofferahn: im fine now ive thought bout it alot an ive learned that i waz rong

-Josh Smith: ....wow

--Christina Stofferahn: yea ik but i hope that u forgive me plz

-Josh Smith: i...i dont know...

-Josh Smith: that was a shocker to me

--Christina Stofferahn: yea but i really love u an idk wat i waz thinkin joey kept beatin me up in german class last yr after it happend an i thought an i really love u

-Josh Smith: i really dont know what to say

--Christina Stofferahn: yea ik iz ok i waz stuck cleanin all week an i could think of waz u an how i hurt u an everythin an i really truely hoenstly love u

-Josh Smith: i just dont know what to say

--Christina Stofferahn: jus that u love me cuz ik u do an all them pics that i put as my yahoo default i took them cuz i missed u so much

-Josh Smith: i need to ponder this

--Christina Stofferahn: ok

-Josh Smith: bye

--Christina Stofferahn: bye



so how do i handle the situation
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well I now know that xero's writing is good
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anyways but in all seriousness you got a girl who has great feelings for you and one that did love you but dumped in two months went to another guy the next day and mocked you for who knows how long. For her to come over a IM and tell you that she now loves you again after while, is not enough for what see means or she got dumped and now is desperately seeking a another guy. she should have called you or come over to say it in person. She really needs to show you what see means. But the best advice I can give you uber is don't go with the one that disrespected you, I say go with the one that has great feelings and have a thing with each other. that's my opinion and I'm sticking to it. Also you should get a opinion from a girl like sea or kisame.
 
ok the person that set me and the ex up has just told me this (a conversation the person who set us up (Misty) and my ex that said that she loved me (chris)

(YAHOO CONVERSATION)


-Misty: hey you don't have 2 msg me back if you don't want 2.

--chris: thaz ok ik how i really feel now

-misty: and wuld u have believed me if i told u? no u wuldnt hv

-misty: ik

--chris: well hey at least i freakin thougth bout it fro a good long while

-misty: yea that was da POINT

--chris: yea ik that an im glad that i thought bout it for as long as did

-misty: yea and thats good

--chris: yea ik it is

--chris: i wonder if he will see the pic that i put up

-misty: c!! i helped u by not sayin n e thing!!! and wat did u mean u culd c it in my face and my eyes wen u looked at me??? idk maybe he will maybe he wont

--chris: god i want him bac now i hope i can get him bac cuz i really want him bac

-misty:yea....deep down i knew u still loved him but i didnt say n e thing cuz i wanted u 2 figure it out on ur own

--chris: yea ik that i jus didnt no how to deal wit my feelings til now


damn.....grrr....
 
QUOTE (ubertrance @ August 19, 2008 09:49 pm) QUOTE (Demon_Skeith @ August 19, 2008 09:47 pm) how the hell did you get that? were you in the conversation?
no Misty sent it to me
I smell women tricky! but really I don't know what to do if I were you. but if it was me I forget the one who dumped me and go for the one who has a thing for me.
 
QUOTE (Demon_Skeith @ August 19, 2008 09:56 pm) QUOTE (ubertrance @ August 19, 2008 09:49 pm) QUOTE (Demon_Skeith @ August 19, 2008 09:47 pm) how the hell did you get that? were you in the conversation?
no Misty sent it to me
I smell women tricky! but really I don't know what to do if I were you. but if it was me I forget the one who dumped me and go for the one who has a thing for me.
yea...
 
Women troubles i see, let the vet. tell you whats up: Alright I'm going on from what i experienced. First of all girl who dumps you, mocks you, then think she can somehow get back together with you by doing text messages over the internet is way wrong! The only way to even think that she may like you, instead of just trying to use you, bring into a place like by her friends and ask her if she loves you, eye to eye, make sure the tone of voices sounds a little said with a happy tint to it, if it like a normal kind of voice like you would normally use, then she don't mean sh**. all the thing have to be right in order to even think that she still likes you, if you think so then bring her on a couple dates to see if her personality changed to like you and not trying to get stuff from you. I had a couple girlfriends in detail who did the exact same thing my friend, but i was wrong about them, they just use you, or cheat on you. Then there the good ones who like the same thing you do, are always happy in being together, you know the fun stuff. plus you would feel that she is the one too, if you have that little tingly feeling about her then it might be right, if not i don't know what to tell you. Trust your gut, if you want to try it with Brit then try it, but if you think Christina might be "that" one, then try it with them and see, just see. remember your still young, it don't mean that you will marry her when your older, it's Highly unlikey that you will...trust me. Now you know why i'm single still, waiting for the perfect one, one of my good friends i knew since i was 15 might be it. she is perfect in my mind and i know she probably feels the same i just need to get home late this year and ask her. Do what i do get to know them, be friends and if your in your 20's and still friends and feel the urge inside then ask them out cause i bet you a lot that they want to do the same.
 
QUOTE (The Reaper @ August 19, 2008 10:54 pm) Women troubles i see, let the vet. tell you whats up: Alright I'm going on from what i experienced. First of all girl who dumps you, mocks you, then think she can somehow get back together with you by doing text messages over the internet is way wrong! The only way to even think that she may like you, instead of just trying to use you, bring into a place like by her friends and ask her if she loves you, eye to eye, make sure the tone of voices sounds a little said with a happy tint to it, if it like a normal kind of voice like you would normally use, then she don't mean sh**. all the thing have to be right in order to even think that she still likes you, if you think so then bring her on a couple dates to see if her personality changed to like you and not trying to get stuff from you. I had a couple girlfriends in detail who did the exact same thing my friend, but i was wrong about them, they just use you, or cheat on you. Then there the good ones who like the same thing you do, are always happy in being together, you know the fun stuff. plus you would feel that she is the one too, if you have that little tingly feeling about her then it might be right, if not i don't know what to tell you. Trust your gut, if you want to try it with Brit then try it, but if you think Christina might be "that" one, then try it with them and see, just see. remember your still young, it don't mean that you will marry her when your older, it's Highly unlikey that you will...trust me. Now you know why i'm single still, waiting for the perfect one, one of my good friends i knew since i was 15 might be it. she is perfect in my mind and i know she probably feels the same i just need to get home late this year and ask her. Do what i do get to know them, be friends and if your in your 20's and still friends and feel the urge inside then ask them out cause i bet you a lot that they want to do the same.
me and Christina had almost nothing in common....me and Brittany has ALOT more in common...Brittany has been there for me
 
Then screw christina in the butt...(no pun intended hehe) but as like i said go with the one your heart and interests go out to, by my thought go with Brit she might be that one hopefully for you to make you happy. and you have a myspace? i thought people don't like that on here.
 
QUOTE (The Reaper @ August 19, 2008 11:08 pm) Then screw christina in the butt...(no pun intended hehe) but as like i said go with the one your heart and interests go out to, by my thought go with Brit she might be that one hopefully for you to make you happy. and you have a myspace? i thought people don't like that on here.
yea i do lol

actually Seaofclouds has one too
 
I know Ive never had a girlfriend before (or really know about that situation that well lol) but if I were to chuse Id pick Brittany, cause if you know she has strong fealings towards you, that would be the better pick. I hope my advice helps your situation.
 
I'd stay away from the girl that already dumped you. Move on. Obviously she doesn't think things through before she makes decisions, so if she gets upset or has doubts, she'll just dump you again without thinking about it first.

I'd see where things go with this new girl. Women are tricky beings (trust me!). Good luck and keep us posted.
 
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