Ouch, tough question. Hrmmm I would say funeral since well you know I'm dead and no longer care but since I'm a shy person I rather just have me and my wife at my wedding with no one else.
I would rather there be no one at my funeral since I'm going to be dead already. Once you're dead, it's like of like "What's the point?" Plus, I'm already married and there were already people at my wedding.