It's why I try to be picky of the days when going to grocery stores. I do that mostly on Mondays here because it's more free.I try to avoid them but the ones I can't avoid more often than not are at grocery stores where a lot of people go.
Traffic is worse. At the supermarket, I might decide not to go on with buying what I picked and head home but in traffic, you can't leave even if you wanted to.I hate being in a queue in a supermarket. I already get anxious and nervous as it is heading out so being stuck in a queue in a busy supermarket is no fun.
I also hate being stuck in traffic.
Traffic on the highway or feeder road is the main thing that I hate. I try to avoid it as much as possibly.Traffic is worse. At the supermarket, I might decide not to go on with buying what I picked and head home but in traffic, you can't leave even if you wanted to.
I hate all of them. It's only when the red traffic light stops me that it doesn't get on my nerves.Traffic on the highway or feeder road is the main thing that I hate. I try to avoid it as much as possibly.
You're having it so much easier in Brooklyn. The difference is so clear. I bet you'd find it very difficult to move back to NYC.This is going to sound funny, maybe hypocritical as a native New Yorker and Brooklynite and we aren't really known for our patience.. but I actually don't mind waiting..
I mean, in NYC, (all 5 boroughs) you know that you are in for something good food-wise if the line goes around the block.. or is just extremely long.. and apparently the rules are universal because my brother and his family went to a food festival a few weeks ago, and he basically said that the best places had long lines and the ones that sucked was shorter.. I told him that that he's from NYC and should've known better.. lol
But up here, I am constantly surprised by the number of people who apologize for making me wait when it is usually a very short one. I guess it is part of the irony in having lived in both places.. NYC is usually billed as a fast-paced city, and yet, during rush hour traffic it can take you about an hour to leave Brooklyn depending on the reason for the traffic. It took us 2 hours to leave Brooklyn with our truck because we got caught in traffic.
We have yet to see anything like this up here since we've been here, and even though things up here are much slower paced, it is still faster to get things done up here than it did when we lived in Brooklyn. When we signed up for TSA PreCheck, we had our numbers 2 days later and were able to use it when we went to Miami later that year for a cruise. If we still lived in NYC, there might've been a possibility that we wouldn't have had it in time for our trip. In fact I was able to get my state id switched to my new address as well as update my name to my married name, get our latest Covid shots and join TSA PreCheck in the same week.
I've experienced this severally in shopping malls, I'll leave the cashier and go to another person with customers who didn't want to buy the whole shopping mall lol.I hate being in a self checkout lane where someone has a grocery cart full of stuff, and then they take their time scanning each item. Like, you're either tryin to steal or you're being a pain in the ass. Scan your shit and go.
It's been a minute since I've been here, but I would not move back to NYC.. don't get me wrong, I will always love my city, but I don't miss it as much as I thought I would when we left.. in fact, I hated every trip back to NYC to get our stuff after we closed on this house..You're having it so much easier in Brooklyn. The difference is so clear. I bet you'd find it very difficult to move back to NYC.