Interracial Marriages?

AidsorHIV said:
/\Pretty racist but oh well. :confused:
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Not meant as anything racist against the White guy (or men
from other ethnicities, no, but that's just how I myself
think about the whole matter).

& Yes I agree, it's very judegmental of
me to say that, but I don't think I can
be with anyone else than Asian,
considered in the thread (parents-family,
different viewpoints about things, &
even them being from another culture/society than mine).

& yes, I don't think I can
live/be with a Western man because of these differences... & (Yes, because I hate having to live with them in my life, so
why would I choose/want someone who's so
blatantly different from me in every aspect of life?) I just don't get the logic of doing that...however I'm not judging
anyone who does like that. Personally,
I just can't.
 
If you hate differences in life, then you pretty much just confined yourself to a life of solitude because unless you clone yourself, and have a relationship with it, then you will have differences. Even if you only go for Asian men, people are different.

So if you hate differences, then you will be alone for the rest of your life.
 
Well, you are talking like there it's not possible to point into a connection with a guy if he's say.....white. That is so ridiculous.
I'm sure there are plenty of white guys that can make you laugh, offer protection, romance(if that's your thing), etc, etc.
But they are white...oh darn. :lol:

And you are a Canadian as well right? It's not like everyone around here is upside down in culture and the way they act. You grew up here.
 
So if you are happy with being alone for the rest of your life, then why start so many threads about the same thing? What do you care about why guys like you? You want to be alone for the rest of your life, so what does it matter to you?

AoH, it's because White guys are disgusting to her. I'm not paraphrasing, she said so herself.
 
AidsorHIV said:
Well, you are talking like there it's not possible to point into a connection with a guy if he's say.....white. That is so ridiculous.
I'm sure there are plenty of white guys that can make you laugh, offer protection, romance(if that's your thing), etc, etc.
But they are white...oh darn. :lol:
 
And you are a Canadian as well right? It's not like everyone around here is upside down in culture and the way they act. You grew up here.
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Yes they are Whites (as an example only, can be any other races of men & not meant to point my fingers at them or anything of the sort), fundamentally
speaking, so not my people.

Why would I even bother with them...?
Since I'm not from X culture myself...?
 
You know what, i'm glad you don't like white men, because I don't like racists in my life either.

You have convinced yourself that no non-Asian man could ever make you happy.... again close-minded (you accused me of calling you names but it is clearly a spot-on description of you), but Asian men can also have obsessions, be rapists, be pedos, not understand women, may come from a different culture, may have different religion.

Tell me this.... a white man is born in England, within his first year of life he is moved permanently to China and is completely grown up there, in their culture, religion etc. What about him?
 
Good one Gamer Perfection.

I saw a study a few weeks back that said that over 1/4 of men in southeast Asia have openly admitted to rape and sexual assault. That is staggering in my opinion. Where white cultures exist, its significantly lower. I think the issue is the Asian cultures studied are much more conservative around those they know, but when they can get away with it they are very deceitful. While white men appear more rough and non-caring, its probably because we're just honest about it. 
 
GamerPerfection said:
You know what, i'm glad you don't like white men, because I don't like racists in my life either.
 
You have convinced yourself that no non-Asian man could ever make you happy.... again close-minded (you accused me of calling you names but it is clearly a spot-on description of you), but Asian men can also have obsessions, be rapists, be pedos, not understand women, may come from a different culture, may have different religion.
 
Tell me this.... a white man is born in England, within his first year of life he is moved permanently to China and is completely grown up there, in their culture, religion etc. What about him?
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Indeed, what about him...? It's just I've never ever in my life
thought about "White guys" in such a
way.

& yes I must admit Asian men can cheat
on their wives/gfs or whatever & are
even sometimes can be even worse than
"White males" in the infidelity
department, yes. But White men can also
be playboys, some not all.

About your point about Asians coming
from different cultures, true, but they're still less different than say Blacks, Whites, & I can relate to them (Asians) more easily (foods/drinks wise, & even looks-wise & etc... & that's just descriptive, not meant anything by this)

And yes, you like me, am I right (as
I'm supposing you're describing yourself to me, yes?
Why didn't you say that...?)
 
The concept of a hypothetical question really escapes you doesn't it? 

Everything you say about White men can be applied to all, Asian men included.

I mean, didn't Kim Jong Un, have his ex-girlfriend killed? The one he allegedly had an affair with while he was married to his current wife?

Didn't Kim Jong Il have more than one mistress?

From his Wiki bio:


There is no official information available about Kim Jong-il's marital history, but he is believed to have been officially married once and to have had three mistresses. He had four known sons: Kim Jong-nam, Kim Jong-chul, Kim Jong-un. His two known daughters are Kim Sul-song and Kim Yo-jong.

Kim's first mistress, Song Hye-rim, was a star of North Korean films. She was already married to another man and with a child when they met; Kim is reported to have forced her husband to divorce her. This relationship, started in 1970, was not officially recognized. They had one son, Kim Jong-nam (born 1971) who is Kim Jong-il's eldest son. Kim kept both the relationship and the child a secret (even from his father Kim Il-sung) until Kim ascended to power in 1994. However, after years of estrangement, Song is believed to have died in Moscow in the Central Clinical Hospital in 2002.

Kim's official wife, Kim Young-sook, was the daughter of a high-ranking military official. His father Kim Il-Sung handpicked her to marry his son. The two were estranged for some years before Kim's death. Kim had a daughter from this marriage, Kim Sul-song (born 1974).

His second mistress, Ko Young-hee, was a Japanese-born ethnic Korean and a dancer. She had taken over the role of First Lady until her death — reportedly of cancer — in 2004. They had two sons, Kim Jong-chul, in 1981, and Kim Jong-un (also "Jong Woon" or "Jong Woong"), in 1983. They also had a daughter, Kim Yo-jong, who was about 23 years old in 2012.

After Ko's death, Kim lived with Kim Ok, his third mistress, who had served as his personal secretary since the 1980s. She "virtually acts as North Korea's first lady" and frequently accompanied Kim on his visits to military bases and in meetings with visiting foreign dignitaries. She traveled with Kim Jong-il on a secretive trip to China in January 2006, where she was received by Chinese officials as Kim's wife.
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But I guess that since he is Asian, that doesn't count right?

It says here that infidelity is the biggest reason for divorce in China.

http://www.ibtimes.com/chinas-divorce-rate-rises-seventh-consecutive-year-1105053

But, I guess that since Chinese people are also Asian, that this too doesn't count right?

Cheating only matters if you aren't Asian right?

If you are content with the idea of being alone, then why is it that you are so concerned about why men like you?

Do you really think that a nun would give 2 shits about who wants to date her, especially if she took a vow of celibacy and dedicated her life to the church?

Furthermore, if knowledge of language, culture, religion, parental and friend approval and ability to understand you are exactly the same, what is it you think that an Asian man can do that a man of any other race can't?
 
Sanaki said:
Indeed, what about him...? It's just I've never ever in my life thought about "White guys" in such a way.
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EXACTLY my point of why I call you closed-minded. You can't bring yourself to think outside of that little box in your head. You accuse me of calling you names but all I am doing is calling you exactly how you present yourself on this forum.

Assuming you understand the term hypothetical (seeing as you once said your English is flawless), then if you came across a White man that knows everything about Asian culture, has lived in the area for years and completely understands it, what would your excuse be then for denying him point-blank?

 

Sanaki said:
And yes, you like me, am I right (as
I'm supposing you're describing yourself to me, yes?
Why didn't you say that...?)
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I like you? Absolutely not. You have done nothing but present yourself as a closed-minded little racist. Tell me why would I like someone like that???

I'm not describing myself to you at all, i'm using hypothetical examples. I thought you said your English is flawless?

Why didn't I say what???
 
GamerPerfection said:
EXACTLY my point of why I call you closed-minded. You can't bring yourself to think outside of that little box in your head. You accuse me of calling you names but all I am doing is calling you exactly how you present yourself on this forum.
 
Assuming you understand the term hypothetical (seeing as you once said your English is flawless), then if you came across a White man that knows everything about Asian culture, has lived in the area for years and completely understands it, what would your excuse be then for denying him point-blank?
 
 
 
I like you? Absolutely not. You have done nothing but present yourself as a closed-minded little racist. Tell me why would I like someone like that???
 
I'm not describing myself to you at all, i'm using hypothetical examples. I thought you said your English is flawless?
 
Why didn't I say what???
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& It doesn't when a White man does that...?(both sides of the fence can be
argued) Yes, that's great point, BA, any men can cheat & do other despicable stuff to women...no matter their color,
race.


& My answer: parental/familial/community
pressure on me to marry someone Asian.

& You can't say I'm a close-minded person, since I'm just not open-minded
about certain little things such like
this (mainly my lovelife...) So you can say I'm close-minded about this matter
(or certain others) only, yes, but not
that I'm a close-minded person in life,
cause I'm pretty open to other stuff
like hobbies/interests & etc...

& If you said I was narrow-minded
about this matter, it wouldn't be
"calling my person close-minded".Why?
because a person can be not so open-minded about some things, doesn't make her/him a close-minded person in the whole.

You get my point there...?

& said "Western man" would still know
less about the Asian culture & Asian women than the Asian man, & that's a fact.


& Yes... but you're using yourself
as an example yes? Why because you could have said any other country than
England if you were really making a
hypothesis (USA, Canada, & France, Italy & ...) Why did England first came into
your mind? Because you're from England
or you're British man. So yes...
you were using yourself as an example.
Because you could have said anything else about the Western-Caucasian man in
question.
 
GamerPerfection said:
Do you think I like you? I ask because of your comment in your earlier post.
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& if you didn't, why so many questions about how many
males I've dated & etc...? (in my men thread).

& you said so yourself in my Asian fetish: "It's the person insided that matters, not the fact that I'm Asian myself..."

And well, I'm assuming or presuming you do yes.
 
Sanaki said:
& if you didn't, why so many questions about how many
males I've dated & etc...? (in my men thread).

& you said so yourself in my Asian fetish: "It's the person insided that matters, not the fact that I'm Asian myself..."

And well, I'm assuming or presuming you do yes.
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This is your problem. You think, even after everything i've said in all these threads that I actually like you, as in i'm attracted to you. What sort of person comes to that conclusion. It makes me wonder if what you say about all these white men being attracted to you and making such advances and having such obsessions about you is all fiction in your little head.

Why so many questions about how many males you've dated? I'm trying to understand where your head is at and how you believe men are obsessed with you. It has nothing to do with my feelings. If you come to the conclusion that I fancy you just because I may have previously asked (not that I can remember mind you) how many males you've dated then clearly it makes it sound as if all this "white men are obsessed with me" shit is all in your head.

And yes I may have said it's the person inside that matters and not the fact that you're Asian. But how is that me saying I like you? The person inside you is racist.

You presumed wrong. I don't like racists one bit. The reason I continue to respond to you in these threads is out of interest to understand someone like you and what makes them tick. I've personally never known a racist, so it's interesting to see what issues they have.
 
GamerPerfection said:
This is your problem. You think, even after everything i've said in all these threads that I actually like you, as in i'm attracted to you. What sort of person comes to that conclusion. It makes me wonder if what you say about all these white men being attracted to you and making such advances and having such obsessions about you is all fiction in your little head.
 
Why so many questions about how many males you've dated? I'm trying to understand where your head is at and how you believe men are obsessed with you. It has nothing to do with my feelings. If you come to the conclusion that I fancy you just because I may have previously asked (not that I can remember mind you) how many males you've dated then clearly it makes it sound as if all this "white men are obsessed with me" shit is all in your head.
 
And yes I may have said it's the person inside that matters and not the fact that you're Asian. But how is that me saying I like you? The person inside you is racist.
 
You presumed wrong. I don't like racists one bit. The reason I continue to respond to you in these threads is out of interest to understand someone like you and what makes them tick. I've personally never known a racist, so it's interesting to see what issues they have.
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Again, "out of interest to get someone like me because I
puzzle you/interest you in 1 way or
another.."... yes...? XD How you contradict
yourself. & I love how you say 1 thing
& then always deny it afterwards (because your quotes are in the thread).

& Some White are obsessed with me
or it's how "I perceive" them as such (or I've presumsed so, yes) because of their behaviour towards me & etc & because some tell me outright
how beautiful or hot I am in the streets
or someplace else or even asked for
my phone number & where I live. Of course, I've never told them, & H****, even older ones, much older than me, like 50-
60 years old.

& some even said sweet things such like
this (you're just so gorgeous & you're
such a dear/sweetheart) to me when I'v when I walk by them in the mall & etc. Of course, I just ignore them.
 
Sanaki said:
Again, "out of interest to get someone like me because I
puzzle you/interest you in 1 way or
another.."... yes...? XD How you contradict
yourself.
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When you said your English is flawless, well, you couldn't be any further from the truth. You have no idea about the English language. Just because i'm curious to understand what is going on in your head in regards to all this does not at all mean I am attracted to you.

I have in no way contradicted myself.

And in response to your question why anyone would find you beautiful, well it's beyond me, I can only imagine they are racist themselves.
 
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