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If only looks matter to them then all they are interested in is sex. They are not attracted to you in that case, all they want is to get laid.
French is not English. French is French, English is English.
How can you at all think I am attracted to you when i've on numerous occasions labelled you as a racist?
And so what if i'm curious as to what is going on in your mind. DOES THAT MEAN I'M ATTRACTED TO YOU? HELL NO!
French is not English. French is French, English is English.
How can you at all think I am attracted to you when i've on numerous occasions labelled you as a racist?
And so what if i'm curious as to what is going on in your mind. DOES THAT MEAN I'M ATTRACTED TO YOU? HELL NO!
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Sanaki, I've asked you the same or similar questions as GP.
Do you think I like you as well?
Am I giving you some kind of gay curious vibe when I ask you the same questions he has?
I am curious, because after seeing your reaction to GP's comments, I am wondering if I should spell it out for you that I am in no way, shape or form attracted to you, and even if I were gay, or slightly gay curious, I can think of at least 20, i'd consider going there with, and based on your personality around here as well as my own personal preferences, you aren't even anywhere close to what I'd consider the bottom of the barrel.
Truth be told, if those were my only choices, then after a few dates with them, I'd probably think that my curiosity wasn't worth satisfying, or if i were gay, then I'd probably to try force myself into being straight or live the rest of my life in solitude. These would be the more desirable alternatives to the mere thought of dating you.
I am not kidding when I say that this is a very real concern.
If this is not what you think, then I do apologize, but I don't understand how you could come to that conclusion about GP even though I asked you the same questions he has or similar.
One other thing, not to be a grammar Nazi, but the ampersand (&) is only used in logos or company names or trademarks such as "Dean & Deluca" or "Dolce & Gabbana." In English grammar, the word is spelled out as "and." We don't use the ampersand in a sentence. I wasn't sure if you knew that, but if you did, then I do apologize.
I apologize if that is harsh, but I just wanted to state for the record that I am not in any way shape or form interested in you. I don't mean to jump the gun, its just that I am extremely horrified that you might think I am attracted to you, since you have made the same assumption of GP because he asked the same questions I did.
Do you think I like you as well?
Am I giving you some kind of gay curious vibe when I ask you the same questions he has?
I am curious, because after seeing your reaction to GP's comments, I am wondering if I should spell it out for you that I am in no way, shape or form attracted to you, and even if I were gay, or slightly gay curious, I can think of at least 20, i'd consider going there with, and based on your personality around here as well as my own personal preferences, you aren't even anywhere close to what I'd consider the bottom of the barrel.
Truth be told, if those were my only choices, then after a few dates with them, I'd probably think that my curiosity wasn't worth satisfying, or if i were gay, then I'd probably to try force myself into being straight or live the rest of my life in solitude. These would be the more desirable alternatives to the mere thought of dating you.
I am not kidding when I say that this is a very real concern.
If this is not what you think, then I do apologize, but I don't understand how you could come to that conclusion about GP even though I asked you the same questions he has or similar.
One other thing, not to be a grammar Nazi, but the ampersand (&) is only used in logos or company names or trademarks such as "Dean & Deluca" or "Dolce & Gabbana." In English grammar, the word is spelled out as "and." We don't use the ampersand in a sentence. I wasn't sure if you knew that, but if you did, then I do apologize.
I apologize if that is harsh, but I just wanted to state for the record that I am not in any way shape or form interested in you. I don't mean to jump the gun, its just that I am extremely horrified that you might think I am attracted to you, since you have made the same assumption of GP because he asked the same questions I did.
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Was born in the USA, my dad is from St. Petersburg, Russia. My mother is from some village in North Ossetia, Russia. So I'm very light skinned, and I'm somehow attracted to black women. So what do I feel about interacial marriages? I think I'm okay with interacial marriages, Sanaki.
Course I don't, since you're already married... and as a married woman, you shouldn't be attracted to anyone but your husband... XDBlack Angel said:
GP... a question to you: why does it matter to you that I don't think of
"Western males" as possible partners in life...? You kept on asking me that...
yes...?
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Good. Although I do disagree with your assessment about marriage. There is nothing wrong with appreciating traits you find attractive in a person, just as long as you don't cross any lines. I think Vin Diesal, Daniel Craig and LL Cool J are attractive, but would I ever date them, no, because I love my husband and I think that he is most attractive.
Regarding GP, he was asking you hypothetical questions for the sake of discussion, I don't think that he is attractive to you at all and I think that if anything, you've offended him with that suggestion rather than your words to him on this subject. Since, in this case, you are making baseless accusations against him. It also makes you seem narcissistic.
I think that for your knowledge of the English language, you have serious issues with comprehension since it seems as though it is your problems with this, and refusal to acknowledge this problem, that have led to the misunderstandings you've had thus far.
Regarding GP, he was asking you hypothetical questions for the sake of discussion, I don't think that he is attractive to you at all and I think that if anything, you've offended him with that suggestion rather than your words to him on this subject. Since, in this case, you are making baseless accusations against him. It also makes you seem narcissistic.
I think that for your knowledge of the English language, you have serious issues with comprehension since it seems as though it is your problems with this, and refusal to acknowledge this problem, that have led to the misunderstandings you've had thus far.
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But you have no idea whether i'm married, but you presume that I am attracted to you because I ask you questions?Sanaki said:
So if a male asks you questions then they are attracted to you, but if a female asks you questions then they are not?
To answer your question, none of this actually matters to me personally because it's not my life and not my problem. However, that doesn't stop me being curious about the subject or engaging in the subject considering this is a public forum.
Let me put it another way... if it were Black Angel that was starting these topics that you had started then I would still be responding in the same manner. Can you understand that my responses in these topics is not because of you but because of what you say. You seem to have a habit of turning everything I say into me being attracted to you. You currently say i'm attracted to you, you've previously said i'm stalking you and i'm obsessed with you. You say this about other men in your life. Can you not see the problem with this? You are seeing things that are not there because you are failing to understand.
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No it was not to Black Angel, it was to you. Try reading what I say.Sanaki said:
I'm sorry if I don't like what racists say but why should I walk away from it. None of it is actually hurting or offending me. All you've done in these threads is show to everyone that you are a racist.
No, I wasn't asking you if you wereGamerPerfection said:
posting this to BA or me, but I was rather saying:
My first paragraph in my post quoting you (saying whatever there...) was to BA
(one about her being married or having a husband & I was replying to her whole
post about whatever she said about me
thinking she was into/liking me... or
something. and I answered her no...)
And to GP ONLY here:
I know you're doing this so I could
watch for what I'm saying thre, but there really isn't the need for you to.
And could you please just leave me alone
or ignore me...okay?
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Ignore a racist? Gladly.Sanaki said:
No, I'm not racist, I'm just really biased against/prejudiced against Whites.GamerPerfection said:
Why I am so prejudiced against this group of people?
Because the ones I've met have always
been saying this kinda stuff (like Asians are dirty, retarded at school, even in shopping malls & etc) to me.
So it's only that I'd have some issues with the people who say this kinda of
stuff to me (but especially my Mum).
& 1 question to you here, would you not be heavily prejudiced like me against a group of people if all they did was to laugh at you, laugh at your Mother, cousin, family... or called your people "X M****** or c***** W***** or whatever racist
word.
Don't you dare say I'm "claiming" this, sine I'm going through this so often
that I don't care about it anymore.
& I don't see the point to complain
about it anymore, unlike you.
Now I'm thinking, why would I be in a
relationship with someone who could
do/say the same thing to my parents/family. & who might even call them such names
(previously said ones : C****) Or even a "retard for liking different stuff
from them"? I'm sure you'd never experience such racism thrown at you to this
extent, since well, you're amongst your own people. Eh?
Oughtn't I somewhat hold this against
them...? & Wouldn't you hold it against
such a group (Whites in my case, for you, might be other people) if they
did it to personally like they did to me...?
I know of course, not all Whites
call other people stuff, but in my area it's like this.
And to you personally here:
that's far worse than being "called"
disgusting once in your life, no?
And I don't think you (as a White) can
imagine anything a person from an
ethnic minority in a White's society
can suffer. So I don't think
you can sympathize with me.
& BA can relate to me to some extent, since she's a minority herself
& probably has experienced racism from
"Whites" to my point.
& to BA here ONLY, I'm not judging you here, but I just don't get how you can still choose to be with
a White person (your ex)... after this.
It'd be unthinkable for me to forgive
them & be with one...
Or after such racism from them (like you've said once a White told you "to go back to Africa on FP"). How can you forgive such a person?
& Yes I'm aware, Blacks/Asians do
it to Whites too... & they shouldn't,
for inter-racial marriages/relationships to work.
Yes my whole point is on inter-racial marriages, for it to work, there shouldn't be
any kind of prejudices/racism/disrespect from either partner.
Either Black-White, White-Asian, Arab-White or whatever.
& A N.B to Gamer, since you're against racism yourself, I did position myself as a racist or made myself look like I share a racist's view...? Why? That is something used to better counter-argue with someobody in psychology & to better
see the other side. If this had been
about anything, I'd have de facto the
other side... (you do remember our arguments about peace wars & men cheating
at General-Chat as MsNaiwen)?
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Lets take a hypothetical scenario here and i'd tell you how I would view it based on the thin story I give.Sanaki said:
If in my town where I live in my country there were a group of black people (boys and/or girls) that picked on me, laughed at me and my family, called me names and made racist comments towards me, would I be heavily prejudiced towards black people?...... No.
Would I separate the group from their race and focus my retaliation or whatever on them instead of pulling an entire ethnic race into the problem?.... Yes.
I look at people for who they are. If someone is being abusive towards me, being racist towards me etc then what I see is them and not their race. It's like saying all Muslims are terrorists because some Muslims are involved in terrorism. That's bullshit because every race is involved in terrorism.
And as for what you personally are experiencing from other people, every single race of people do exactly what they are doing to you, therefore being prejudice towards Whites because of what some white men have done to you is ridiculous.
As i've answered your question.... can you answer me this question......
1) If (hypothetically) you experienced similar experiences from Asian men (like you do white men) and you didn't like it and they wouldn't stop would you then become prejudice towards all Asian men?
This is a bit offtopic. From the beginning I've been dying to see what you look like, Sanaki. Ever since the "guys all around come after me flirting" part.
Care to share for my viewing pleasure. Don't worry, I don't care if your personality conflicts with mine. I just want to visually see what all of the fuss is about.
http://forum.gamingforce.us/index.php/topic/68588-post-your-pic/
Care to share for my viewing pleasure. Don't worry, I don't care if your personality conflicts with mine. I just want to visually see what all of the fuss is about.
http://forum.gamingforce.us/index.php/topic/68588-post-your-pic/
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You seem to have a good habit of not answering my questions.Sanaki said:
You might as well just hate all men and be done with it.
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First, just because you are only against Whites doesn't mean that you aren't a racist, you are just racist against Whites rather than being an equal opportunity racist.Sanaki said:
For example, the person who passed out the racist Obama bux when he first announced his running for president defended themselves by saying that they weren't racist, and couldn't be because their husband was Mexican. She said this as if it really proved that she wasn't a racist, when it, meant that she wasn't racist against Mexicans.
Second, although I don't have any issues with being a minority, I just wanted to correct you on something, biracial and multi-racial people are actually more common than you think and will be the majority pretty soon. Actually, in this country, everybody is mixed with something, it's just that those who are on extreme ends of the spectrum tend to be in denial about it. Europeans didn't just kill the Native Americans when they landed here and in South America, they raped the women and children as well. They would do the same thing with the Black slaves as well. Direct descendants of these people are in deep denial because of the emotional ramifications of what has happened.
For the pollitically powerful, they denied having affairs with attractive slaves and freed Blacks, because their career and reputation would have been destroyed. Thomas Jefferson couldn't acknowledge his children with Sally Hemings, but he did make sure that they had a good life and were part of the same circles his other children were. It wasn't until after Jefferson's death, that his daughter, would free Sally Hemings, where she would end up living with her sons until she died. Strom Thurmond, who was against desegregation, and a racist himself, had an affair with his Black maid, and had a daughter. Her name was Essie Mae Washington and she died this year at the age of 87. While he never acknowledged his daughter publicly, he did see that she was taken care of, and it was only after his death, did she come forward.
Thomas Jefferson and Strom Thurmond are just two of many influential Whites who have had affairs and children with Black women. There are many, more, but they are closeted and took the secret to their graves.
It was the ignorance and hatred, that were the issues of racism that are in this country today. Thankfully, society has become more accepting of others compared to the way it was 50-60 years ago, and pretty soon the average American will look like this.
Furthermore, because of the European explorers doing what they did, not just in the Americas, but also, everywhere, it incredibly likely that everyone has a bit of European ancestry in them, in the same way that everyone has African ancestry, since all life originated in Africa. This is why racism is stupid, and that there is no such thing as racial purity or race itself. We are literally 99.9+% the same. The concept of "race" originated in post-Slavery U.S.A. because the Southern Whites didn't want the freed Blacks to have any political power, and so, with this mindset, the One Drop Rule and Jim Crow laws were born. That's it.
Second, I have experienced discrimination from both ignorant White and Black people, and like with racism, ignorance and stupidity isn't isolated to skin color. With Whites it was because of my skin color, and with Blacks, it was the same thing. I have dealt with more discrimination from those who are supposed to be my own people than I have with White people. For the most part, for the exception of my ex's family, and the homeless racist idiot begging for food outside of McD's, and said that he "would never touch anything that a nigger touched" White people were more curious about me than hostile. I was more angry at myself over the fact that I had spent $10 on food for this guy, and was about to give him $20 on top of that so he could buy more food, than I was at him for calling me a nigger.
My friends, many of whom were White, wanted to know why I do things the way I did, and were curious about a lot of little things, because outside of me being their friend, and what limited experience they had outside of their home, where would they get their info? Yahoo Answers didn't exist back then. Regarding my experiences with ignorant Black people, this was rooted in their own insecurities and ignorance that has been passed down from generations in their own family. For these ignorant people, getting good grades, getting a job and putting myself through college and making something of my life meant that I was sucking the White man's dick. For them, I should have aspired to be the neighborhood slut, and had the babies to prove it. For others, my skin color meant that I wasn't really Black and was likely a child of rape from the days of Slavery, and they projected that I thought that I was "All That" (conceited) because of my skin color.
Nevermind the fact that most of my paternal White ancestors are likely those that came because of the Famine. My great-great-grandmother was White, and my great grandmother said that she was likely Irish, because her maiden name was Irish. I am not sure if it was a hold over from Slavery or not because my great-grandmother was born in 1911, and that is 46 years after slavery was abolished in the U.S. She was also Native American as well since my great-grandmother said that she was part Cherokee, and it runs on both sides of our family.
My grandparents down south experienced racism as well, because my grandfather was White, and my grandmother was Black. Both of them were of part Native American ancestry, albeit different tribes. They have both been pulled over by the cops and state troopers for being together, because back then, it was against the law. My grandmother got heat from her own family and so did my grandad. Their families, the church and their communities had turned against them both, despite the things they had done for them. My grandfather got fed up and started telling people that he was Black, but was an albino, and that was why he had white skin. He figured that if people were stupid enough to be racist, then they would also be too stupid to know what an albino is or what they look like. When he started telling people this, they left him and my grandmother alone, and eventually, when my dad and his siblings were born, their families and eventually their communities had come around.
As for why I forgive, and not hate them, the reason being is that these people are sad, ignorant, pathetic excuses for human beings who deserve my pity before my animosity. These are people who have made the choice to be ignorant, even when they were free to learn. They willingly chose mental slavery over freedom, and have not only suffered for it, but will continue to suffer for it. I've never been one to kick a person while they are down and that is the biggest reason I have for not hating them.
Lastly, these people are idiots, so I am even less likely to take anything they say seriously. They are failures at life, and I am not and that is all the more reason why, I don't tar all Whites, Blacks or anyone with the same brush, and it is why I don't give anything some racist idiot has to say it a second thought. Misery loves company, and I refuse to be that company.
That is why I forgive and forget and choose to move on whenever I have encountered a racist or ignorant person. Life is way too short to be hating or discriminating against anyone and that is why I refuse to do it. if a person chooses to discriminate against me for my skin color and decides to write me off, then that is unfortunate for them, and it is their loss, because I am a good person and I've been told that I am awesome as well, and at the end of the day, it is only my life that will be better off because I'd have one less racist that I'd have to deal with.
This is why, I am not a racist, and it is why I don't hold grudges against the entire group for something that a few ignorant people did.
Well, I'd & I'd avoid them the rest of my life,Black Angel said:First, just because you are only against Whites doesn't mean that you aren't a racist, you are just racist against Whites rather than being an equal opportunity racist.
For example, the person who passed out the racist Obama bux when he first announced his running for president defended themselves by saying that they weren't racist, and couldn't be because their husband was Mexican. She said this as if it really proved that she wasn't a racist, when it, meant that she wasn't racist against Mexicans.
Second, although I don't have any issues with being a minority, I just wanted to correct you on something, biracial and multi-racial people are actually more common than you think and will be the majority pretty soon. Actually, in this country, everybody is mixed with something, it's just that those who are on extreme ends of the spectrum tend to be in denial about it. Europeans didn't just kill the Native Americans when they landed here and in South America, they raped the women and children as well. They would do the same thing with the Black slaves as well. Direct descendants of these people are in deep denial because of the emotional ramifications of what has happened.
For the pollitically powerful, they denied having affairs with attractive slaves and freed Blacks, because their career and reputation would have been destroyed. Thomas Jefferson couldn't acknowledge his children with Sally Hemings, but he did make sure that they had a good life and were part of the same circles his other children were. It wasn't until after Jefferson's death, that his daughter, would free Sally Hemings, where she would end up living with her sons until she died. Strom Thurmond, who was against desegregation, and a racist himself, had an affair with his Black maid, and had a daughter. Her name was Essie Mae Washington and she died this year at the age of 87. While he never acknowledged his daughter publicly, he did see that she was taken care of, and it was only after his death, did she come forward.
Thomas Jefferson and Strom Thurmond are just two of many influential Whites who have had affairs and children with Black women. There are many, more, but they are closeted and took the secret to their graves.
It was the ignorance and hatred, that were the issues of racism that are in this country today. Thankfully, society has become more accepting of others compared to the way it was 50-60 years ago, and pretty soon the average American will look like this.
Furthermore, because of the European explorers doing what they did, not just in the Americas, but also, everywhere, it incredibly likely that everyone has a bit of European ancestry in them, in the same way that everyone has African ancestry, since all life originated in Africa. This is why racism is stupid, and that there is no such thing as racial purity or race itself. We are literally 99.9+% the same. The concept of "race" originated in post-Slavery U.S.A. because the Southern Whites didn't want the freed Blacks to have any political power, and so, with this mindset, the One Drop Rule and Jim Crow laws were born. That's it.
Second, I have experienced discrimination from both ignorant White and Black people, and like with racism, ignorance and stupidity isn't isolated to skin color. With Whites it was because of my skin color, and with Blacks, it was the same thing. I have dealt with more discrimination from those who are supposed to be my own people than I have with White people. For the most part, for the exception of my ex's family, and the homeless racist idiot begging for food outside of McD's, and said that he "would never touch anything that a nigger touched" White people were more curious about me than hostile. I was more angry at myself over the fact that I had spent $10 on food for this guy, and was about to give him $20 on top of that so he could buy more food, than I was at him for calling me a nigger.
My friends, many of whom were White, wanted to know why I do things the way I did, and were curious about a lot of little things, because outside of me being their friend, and what limited experience they had outside of their home, where would they get their info? Yahoo Answers didn't exist back then. Regarding my experiences with ignorant Black people, this was rooted in their own insecurities and ignorance that has been passed down from generations in their own family. For these ignorant people, getting good grades, getting a job and putting myself through college and making something of my life meant that I was sucking the White man's dick. For them, I should have aspired to be the neighborhood slut, and had the babies to prove it. For others, my skin color meant that I wasn't really Black and was likely a child of rape from the days of Slavery, and they projected that I thought that I was "All That" (conceited) because of my skin color.
Nevermind the fact that most of my paternal White ancestors are likely those that came because of the Famine. My great-great-grandmother was White, and my great grandmother said that she was likely Irish, because her maiden name was Irish. I am not sure if it was a hold over from Slavery or not because my great-grandmother was born in 1911, and that is 46 years after slavery was abolished in the U.S. She was also Native American as well since my great-grandmother said that she was part Cherokee, and it runs on both sides of our family.
My grandparents down south experienced racism as well, because my grandfather was White, and my grandmother was Black. Both of them were of part Native American ancestry, albeit different tribes. They have both been pulled over by the cops and state troopers for being together, because back then, it was against the law. My grandmother got heat from her own family and so did my grandad. Their families, the church and their communities had turned against them both, despite the things they had done for them. My grandfather got fed up and started telling people that he was Black, but was an albino, and that was why he had white skin. He figured that if people were stupid enough to be racist, then they would also be too stupid to know what an albino is or what they look like. When he started telling people this, they left him and my grandmother alone, and eventually, when my dad and his siblings were born, their families and eventually their communities had come around.
As for why I forgive, and not hate them, the reason being is that these people are sad, ignorant, pathetic excuses for human beings who deserve my pity before my animosity. These are people who have made the choice to be ignorant, even when they were free to learn. They willingly chose mental slavery over freedom, and have not only suffered for it, but will continue to suffer for it. I've never been one to kick a person while they are down and that is the biggest reason I have for not hating them.
Lastly, these people are idiots, so I am even less likely to take anything they say seriously. They are failures at life, and I am not and that is all the more reason why, I don't tar all Whites, Blacks or anyone with the same brush, and it is why I don't give anything some racist idiot has to say it a second thought. Misery loves company, and I refuse to be that company.
That is why I forgive and forget and choose to move on whenever I have encountered a racist or ignorant person. Life is way too short to be hating or discriminating against anyone and that is why I refuse to do it. if a person chooses to discriminate against me for my skin color and decides to write me off, then that is unfortunate for them, and it is their loss, because I am a good person and I've been told that I am awesome as well, and at the end of the day, it is only my life that will be better off because I'd have one less racist that I'd have to deal with.
This is why, I am not a racist, and it is why I don't hold grudges against the entire group for something that a few ignorant people did.
because I don't want these people to hurt me anymore.
And trust doesn't come easy for me... so I wouldn't trust a White man to not call my family stuff or be racist Asians (my people). I cannot let go of the
racism suffered from them.
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With your mindset, you are doing far more harm to yourself than anyone ever could.