Asian Fetishes?

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I editted my last post with a question.

And who says that you have to give up your culture if you married a White man or some other race?

You would still be Asian, and they would still be White.

If you had kids, then your kid would be both.

Good parents in this situation would raise them up with both cultures. You would teach your culture and they would teach theirs.

I am Black, Native American and Irish. I can choose to acknowledge all or none of my heritage. I acknowledge all, and no one has ever forced me into picking one or the other. I generally say thatvis am Black because it makes up the bigger percentage of my heritage, but in terms of vernacular, I am considered a mulatto.

My husband is biracial. His mother is Black and his father is Italian-Spanish. My husband has never been forced to pick a side either and he acknowledges ALL of his heritage like I do.
 
& all they know about the White man's culture & behaviour
in society & their opinions about how they behave around
their gfs/wives" are either from movies, soap operas, media (singers like Justin Bieber & etc) & celeb gossip headlines. I'm trying to make them change their minds about this & it's near impossible since they're unbelieably stubborn about it!

For them... White guys= playboys, cheaters, not good fathers, good husbands. Cannot commit to 1 woman in their life.
All they want is sexual pleasure from a woman...not children or family.

Again, quoting them when this is being discussed in my family, not my own opinions about them although I'm somewhat influenced by them.

& this choice would belong to their in
the final, if the parents say no, then I can't in the Chinese culture.

If I go against their wishes, then
I'd be torn between my parents or the one who loves me.
 
The media is a horrible thing to go by. Do you know why I say this? Because it perpetuates stereotypes about everyone, including ones about your own people.

For example.

White People = Inbred Rednecks

Chinese = Tiny Penises and people who eat cats, dogs and babies.

Asian Girls/Women = Weak women who will serve you hand and foot and are huge sluts in bed.

Native American = People who own casinos and tobacco shops. They walk around naked or in tribal garb.

Colombians = All drug lords who use coffee to transport drugs.

French = Hairy, lascivious, cowards who smell like wine and cheese and are best at running away.

Canadians = people who love hockey, and say "eh?" all the time.

Spanish = Casanovas

Black = Ghetto criminals with a million babies.

Italian = All members of a Mafia or has mafia ties.

Mexicans = Criminals who sneak across the border to steal our jobs.

Russians = Hairy people who smell like vodka and borscht.

Polish = Stupid.

Jewish = Entrepreneurial and cheap.

Irish = Drunks

British = Bad teeth.

Japanese = Perverts who love kareoke.

Indian = Smell like curry.

Africans = Naked people who live in the wild and have big dicks.

Muslims = Terrorists.

The media is what enforces these stereotypes.
 
Yes I agree totally, but how to make them see past that since they categorically refuse to meet any White guy, even my friends?

White guys can be really nice too, good
fathers, & loyal husbands & not what they believe them to be.

For example, one French guy wanted to
ask me out at school, they said no because: French are lazy, cheaters, smooth talkers... only want sex from a woman & etc...
 
Its not just White guys, but all guys.

If you dont want guys to stereotype you, then you shouldn't stereotype others, and if you wouldn't want guys to single you out for your race, then you shouldnt single them out for theirs.

So rather than saying White guys, why not say guys instead? By limiting yourself to one type, you also limit your own happiness.

If they refuse to meet anyone who isnt Asian, then that is on them, and it is their loss, but you shouldn't let it stop you from living your life and doing whatever makes you happy.
 
Firstly I don't recall ever telling you to stop talking about this. If I did please point it out to me.

BA is right about what I was pointing out about. You are obsessing about white guys obsessing about Asian women, you are doing the exact same thing.

This thread can be about 1 of 2 things:

1) White men obsession over Asian women
2) Men (of any colour) obsession over women (of a different colour)

Number 2 is a general discussion about the "real" issue. But you chose to single out a race. In my eyes that is wrong, because I believe the real issue is a man having an obsession with a woman of different colour from them.


Anyway, I am very sorry to say Sanaki, but the more you post, the more you sound like racism is involved here, and I will point out the key points that scream racism to me. I might be wrong, but it may be a case of you needing to understand the consequences of what you are saying.


& you're saying: what I find wrong
about White guys I can't say it, but
that doesn't help you or others understand what I feel about them & why I'm
so disguted by them & their actions
towards me, which is the whole point of this thread.
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You have experienced negative things from a number of white men in your personal life, yet you say that you find white men disgusting and their actions. This is a very racist comment. To me, because i'm one of those white men, you claim you consider me disgusting because you have a racist opinion of white men. Don't take this the wrong way, it doesn't actually bother me what you think of white men, but it all sounds racist.


but how to make them see past that since they categorically refuse to meet any White guy, even my friends?
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Your parents clearly have racist tendencies which I believe this is where all this is spawning from.


How I am to overcome this if every other day, a White gropes me or whispers in my ear
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If "someone" gropes you, you do realise they have a pair of balls at arms length. If you do nothing about it, then they will continue.


If I had female friends of different colours that I asked out, and they didn't want to go out with me then i'd accept that and i'd respect that. But if they didn't want to go out with me because i'm white, then I wouldn't want to know them anymore or be friends with someone like that. With your views on white men and saying how disgusting they are you are only going to create problems for yourself.
 
& Shouldn't I find them creepy? After encountering these "bad" White guys? Maybe you care to change my mind about them...?

Now why do I call them "White guys"? Because I'm not a White girl & they're
not my own race. I cannot call them "guys" because they are "White guys" to me.

& Of course, I'll judge them since
I'm not White myself.

& I find nothing with saying facts
& saying the truth.

& Since I'm not White, I will not see
them as "just Whites". White guys are White guys. Arab guys=Arab guys. Asian males=Asian males. Black men=Black men.
What I mean to say is that: I didn't mean to single out a race. I was merely stating an observation about White men.

So to your number 2: I wasn't singling
out a race, just saying facts & truth
about my life. Had it been Black men doing this to me: I would have said: Black men having a fetish.

2nd: I don't have to comply to YOUR
suggestions/orders because YOU think it's offensive when others didn't say a word about this. & BA, you said that only
after Gamer said I was racist...
so you listened to him instead of trying
to understand me, saying I was
"pining it to Whites or my obsession about Whites having a fetish for Asian
women", only after Gamer said he found it racist, which I myself, don't find so, since again, I'm merely stating facts about men. If it was Black males, Arabs/Jews, I'd not have said "White guys", believe me.

How does accusing me of being racist against Whites males? Since I'm observing
that mostly from White males around me.

Okay yes, now I get where you're coming from, you could have explained this to me calmly instead of throwing a temper
tantrum at me... & could have answered my questions about what bothered you directly. I honestly didn't know you reacted to what I said. I'd have understood you better & would have been more open-minded
to what you're trying to tell me.

(Forget what I said in your thread, since
I posted that last night, without reading this.)

So I was right, you're hurt because
I said I find White guys disgusting.
But you do know I never
meant to offend YOU personally by
sayin a general statement about White
males, yes?

Another thing: don't take everything so
personally, not gonna do you any good because you're going to meet racist,
sexist people offline too.
 
What the fuck are you on about? You post is so incoherent I feel like I need to sober up to read it even though I haven't been drinking.

1. I did not state anything because GP said it. I stated that I saw the point that GP was trying to make where singling out races were concerned. I said that by you singling out White guys, you are doing the exact same thing that you say White guys do to you. What you easily could have said was,

in your personal experience, White guys tend to be rude and overly flirtatious, because that is the way they have been to you and that is why you said that they are disgusting. Instead, you said White guys are disgusting. Whether you like it or not, that is racist be ause you just called every White guy out there, disgusting regardless is whether they did anything wrong or not.

It would be equally wrong if, hypothetically, GP said that Asian women are close minded, narcissistic, overly-judgemental racists, based on your posts in this thread even though he has never met any other Asian women before. He would be using his experiences with YOU to tar ALL Asian women with the same brush.

2. I am more than capable of making up my own mind and making my own decisions. I don't need to be swayed by someone else's, that being said, I said what I said be ause it is what I think, and NOT because someone else has said it. Capisce?

I understood where GP was coming from in his responses to you, in the same way I said that I understood where YOU were coming from when you mentioned about guys who single you out for your race.

3. I did not say that you had a fetish, I said that you were singling out ALL White guys for something that a few White guys did. THAT is the point I was making. So don't put words in my mouth.

4. You seem to think that your words carry more weight then they do, by implying that GP was hurt when he pointed out the racist comments in your posts.

He was making a point, by using your posts as an example of the point he was making. If you don't like your post being used against you, then watch what you say. It is as simple as that. Because it will be used against you if you try to say that you didn't say something.

5. Let me be perfectly clear. I don't really know you apart from the same few forums we happen to be on, I am not personally invested in you or your life to be affected by ANYTHING you do. Got it? That said, I don't care if you dated only Asian men, or not, because it doesn't affect me at all, it is your life, and you have the right to live it how you see fit.

But don't try and say that your choices and opinions are somehow superior, because they aren't, and you will be reminded of that every time. I am not going to lose any sleep over anything you do in your life, so for all I care you could join a convent for the rest of your life because it doesn't matter to me in the least. I don't know how you even got to the conclusion that I said that you had to comply to my wishes, but I was not even remotely suggesting that. Not by a long shot.
 
No, still don't see it as me being racist
towards Whites. Since I said: those
who have an obsession with Asian women only are disgusting/perverted. Not ALL of them. So again, those who
don't have a fetish/sexual obsession for Asian women shouldn't even feel concerned about
this thread, hence why I didn't get
GP's reaction.

Before putting words in my mouth, I'd suggest for you two to read the title of this thread: Asian fetishes & I brought the isssue of race there.

When did say: I find all Whites disgusting?
Only those who have an obsession with
Asian women are to me.
 
I have edited my post. I had to post that even though it was incomplete because I suspected that my mobile browser was going to crash, so I wanted to post it so that I didn't lose my post.

No, you are not stating facts, you are stating your opinions that you have derived from your personal experiences, as though they are facts.

They are not facts because you haven't met every White guy out there, to be making the statements that you were, as it were fact, when it has always been your opinion, and that is the fact that GP and I have been pointing out to you.

I am not sticking up for him at all, but if he makes some valid points. which he has been, all throughout this thread, and I agree with them, then yes, I will state as such, in the same way I did with yours in my first post. For that matter, I wasn't sticking up for you then either, I just said that I understood where you were coming from, because I had a similar experience.

The only difference is that, I never said, nor implied that it was all Black and White men that singled me out, I have always said from the get go, that it was the ones I had encountered. That is why GP didn't say anything to me. I stated from the start that it was ONLY the guys that I have encountered, and not ALL Black and White men. Which is something that you did not do, you said it was ALL White men as if you knew that every white guy out there would find you attractive and would behave in a perverted manner toward you. That makes you sound both racist, and narcissistic. 

Lastly, If I have something to say, then I am going to respond to any topic I feel like. Whether it applies to me or not. If I have something to say then I am going to say it.  Although, I think it is interesting that you have an issue with me posting in this topic when I agree with GP's points, but yet, you had no issues when I was agreeing with yours. So, I have a right to say something when it is in agreement with you, but I should be censored if you disagree right? 

Hmm, I can't put my finger on it, but that policy sounds very familiar. I wonder where I have heard of that kind of censorship.. 
 
Sanaki said:
No, still don't see it as me being racist
towards Whites. 

When did say: I find all Whites disgusting?
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Sanaki said:
So I was right, you're hurt because
I said I find White guys disgusting.
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There it is, right there. you admitted to saying that you find White guys disgusting. It is right there.

By not including the word 'some' in your statements regarding White men, you were basically saying that all White men are disgusting.

Don't take it up with me though, take it up with the guy who invented this little thing called "logic."
 
My initial point was: some White guys having lustful obsession with Asians girls & why? My point was to find out: How many White guys on here have an Asian fetish & I still don't have answer to that since you two failed to understand that my initial question was to White guys who do have an Asian fetish.. That's the topic & how come I
still had no answer to that after 3 pages of arguments?

He never made any valid points in the
first place because he didn't answer my initial question. It's his own fault for arguing besides my point & making it into what he thought I said.


I fail to see his points & disagree withhim about me "picking on White males", since this topic is about them fetishizing Asian females.

And how I am generalizing if the White men who have got an unhealthy obsession with Asian women are the issue here for me? & I find such behaviour perverted? & I never even said I thought every White men had Asian fetishes, I just said I
only have an issue with those White men,
whom showed such a behaviour towards Asian women?

& I brought the White guys up here, because they (White guys with sexual fantasies) are the issue here & Gamers says I can't do that, because I'd be generalizing the whole White male population, which I didn't, since I limited my argument
to the White guys having an obsession wi th Asian women.

As Gamer isn't a White guy with an Asian fetish, but rather has an attraction to
Asian women (as I understand from what he posted & I've got no problems with that), why should he feel concerned
with this thread...?
 
I am being perfectly logical. 

My views are that it isn't isolated to just Asians and Whites, but others as well, and I said that when I said that I understood where you were coming from.

You are sitting up here making the blatantly ignorant statements that you are, and then, instead of owning what you said, you turn around and then deny them when you are being called out on it and have the nerve to say that those who did call you out are offended.

I didn't say that you were making my opinions inferior, I said that you were stating your opinions as though they were facts and as if they were superior. There is a difference. You did this regarding differences in race and culture being primary causes of divorce, and also when you tried to say that infidelity was something that White men. You said that it was a fact, when I aptly pointed out that that was bullshit.

You keep on saying that he was upset, when he keeps telling you that you didn't offend him, and that, it was what you were saying that was offensive. 

And honestly, why on Earth would you think that you would get an honest answer out of anyone who has a fetish or strong attraction to Asians if all you have done was state that you find White guys to be disgusting and perverted, and you reject any points of view that point out how ignorant your statements are.

You are the very reason you haven't gotten the answers you are looking for, so, instead of getting pissy at the people who are trying to help you realize how you fucked up, you should instead, reread what has been said to you thus far. Because, if you did, and weren't so stubborn, you would see what you did wrong from the beginning.

You asked me to point out where you said that White guys are disgusting, and I did, and I pointed out to you that because you didn't say "some White guys are disgusting" that you were effectively saying that ALL White guys are disgusting.

That would be like him saying that "Asian chicks are idiots." instead of "some Asian chicks are idiots." The first statement paints ALL Asian chicks as being idiots. While, the latter statement only says that some of them are idiots.

In that regard, The first statement would be considered racist, because that person is saying that ALL Asian chicks are idiots.

GP has as much right as anyone to reply to any topic he sees fit. If you didn't want replies, then you shouldn't have started the topic to begin with.

If you would have said some, and kept it at that the entire time through this thread, and stated that what you believed was based on your personal experiences, then this whole thing could have been avoided, and you would have had your answer pages ago.

 But instead, you made it a very pointed topic from the get go, and that is why GP said something it. It had nothing to do with him being offended, he was trying to illustrated HOW it is offensive, but yet you made it seem as though that is an issue.
 
Are you high or something? I mean honesty, you still insist that GP was offended, when he was only pointing out the racism in your statement because you denied that it was racist.

You STILL insist that I am taking his side, when I have stated that I was NOT and said that he made valid points, that I agreed with, just as you did on the first page, which I also agreed with and I stated as such.

So why do you keep insisting that he was offended, when all he did was point out the things you denied saying? Why do you keep insisting that I am taking his side, even though I am telling you that I am not taking his or anyone's side?

I mean really, are you high, or trolling me or something?
 
Because he called me "close-minded" & "worse than any Asian I know"
first? & called me a "racist" for starting a topic on White guys. If he wanted to reply, he should have done so on-topic.

Maybe I should quote him for you to see
who started the argument first with me?

Because he lashed out & raged at my statement about White guys, when he shoulnd't have? His fault for replying besides the
topic.

Are you so blind to see what he's
done wrong to me, like calling me names?

Because I don't see it as racist & I'm
not agreeing with him & no one else in
the thread saw a problem with me posting
that. If it was racist (like GP said), the staff would have locked/closed the thread.

His problem is misunderstanding what
I'm saying about White guys.
 
I don't need you to quote anything for me, I can see perfectly fine thank you.

The reason he called you out is because of your vernacular. Let's take the last sentence in your post, for example.

You just said "His problem is misunderstanding what I'm saying about White guys."

That is your last sentence. 

Your exact statement, is implying that it is ALL White guys, because you did not exclude the ones that are rude, which, you should have stated from the get-go.

Your statement clearly implies that it is ALL White guys, and therefore, you are singling out ALL White guys. Not just the ones that were rude to you, but also, the ones that you have never met as well.
 
No, I still don't see how is it any different from my first statement about them?

You know what, Gamer, next time, just
don't bother replying to my posts & I'll ignore yours, better for us for the time being, I think.
 
Well there it is. Since you don't think you made a mistake, then this would mean that you were intentionally being racist, and in that case, you should own up to that fact rather than trying to say that you aren't a racist.

If you are saying that White guys are disgusting, then it is because that is what you think of the entire White race, and not just those who disrespected you.  

You can't say White guys are disgusting, and then turn around and claim that you aren't a racist and adamantly state that you didn't make a mistake in what you said. You can't have it both ways.

So congratulations. You are a proud racist. 

I wouldn't worry about ignoring people's posts.. I wouldn't be surprised if people ignored yours though. People tend to ignore racists anyway.

I can't believe I wasted my time in responding to a racist.. :wallbash:  I guess that is what I deserve for giving someone the benefit of the doubt..
 
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